Replace, “What do you do for work?”
“What is one of your favorite things to do when you’re not working?” or
“What lights you up?” or
“What are you excited about?” or
“What’s the best thing and the worst thing that happened for you in the last week?”
GO! Do it NOW… with whoever is around you… sitting on the couch with you. GO! NOW!
Ask that person next to you that you think you already know the answer they will give and be open to being surprised.